Live OUT Loud Podcast

Michele Mignogna

Michele hosts alone this week but gets to chat about Human Design and parenting. This week, life and soul purpose coach Michele Mignogna joins us to explore how human design can give you greater insight into your true purpose, and parenting and how vision boards can help you manifest more in your life. 
Human Design combines astrology, the Chinese I Ching, Judaic Kabbalah, Vedic philosophy and modern physics, centering around the division of personalities into four energy types that indicate how someone can more harmoniously interact with the world, called Strategy.
Vision boarding: Turn your goals into a “crafternoon.”
Vision boards are a collection of images or objects arranged to help you manifest your goals or vision. This board can be physical or digital. 
Vision boards are highly versatile. You can use them to manifest your goals or create a visual representation of a vision statement. They’re perfect for helping you envision your dream life. But you can also use a vision board to outline your professional goals.
You can use a vision board for long-term goals, like achieving your 2-5 year plan. Or you can create a yearly vision board, too.
People who use vision boards usually place them where they’ll see them often. For instance, you can place a vision board on a mirror you use to get ready in the morning. Other people will prefer to hang it on a wall in a room they use often.
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Thanks, 
River + Michele

Solo Hiking - River

On this week’s episode River shares her love of solo hiking and travel as a tool for self-growth, and answers questions submitted by our Instagram audience! From favorite destinations to the big question “Do you carry bear spray, flatware, or a gun?” this solo cast gives personal experiences on several aspects of solo travel/hiking. 
 
“Hiking is a bit like life: The journey only requires you to put one foot in front of the other… again and again and again. “The best view comes after the hardest climb.
 
First off, solo hiking means freedom! It allows you to go whenever and wherever you want, without waiting for friends or partners to be available. It allows you to disconnect from technology and distractions, giving you an increased sense of peace in nature. 
 
Solo hiking also allows you to set your own pace and itinerary. You can hike as slow or as fast as you want, and there will be no catching up after stopping to take the hundredth photo! 
 
One of the most rewarding benefits of solo hiking is the sense of personal accomplishment. Hiking alone increases self-reliance and self-sufficiency, in turn, increases my self-esteem. I consider solo hiking an essential to my self-care. 
 
 

Alex Castro is Back

This is a special episode with River and a special repeat guest, Alex from LGBTQMindfulness. Michele took the day off, while Alex and River discussed what mindfulness is, how to get started, and mindfulness in dating. 
It's easy to say you simply don't have time to be mindful. With so much going on in daily life, who has time to stop and be present? But everyone has at least 10 minutes to spare to practice mindfulness.
The point of these brief, daily reflections is to help you tap into calmness whenever life gets too hairy. Practicing everyday mindfulness can also improve your memory and concentration skills and help you feel less distracted and better able to manage crises.
There is more than one way to practice mindfulness. Still, any mindfulness technique aims to achieve a state of alert, focused, relaxed consciousness by deliberately paying attention to thoughts and sensations without passing judgment on them. This allows the mind to focus on the present moment with an attitude of acceptance.
Dating: Mindful dating is a great way to approach the dating scene if you’ve been on many dates over the years and noticed that things aren’t working out. This dating approach can help you become more aware of how you approach the dating process to gain a better grasp of your emotions and behaviors. We hope to break down what is mindful dating to help you get better results when taking a new approach.  
Learn more about what Alex and the team offer here.  
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Julia Hoffman

Happy Wednesday! It's that time again when River + Michele releases another podcast. Today they chat with first-time guest, Julia Hoffman.
Based in Dallas, TX, and serving clients across the U.S., Julia Hoffman specializes in transforming the stigma around divorce into a blueprint for family success. With a Master's in Marriage and Family Therapy and training in Martha Beck's Coaching program, Julia expertly navigates divorce and co-parenting issues–informed by her professional and personal experience as a child of divorce and a co-parent herself.
Together with her wife Christy, Julia happily co-parents three daughters, (6, 10 ½, and 14) alongside their Dad and bonus mom. Julia gained her 4th/oldest daughter when she adopted Christy’s bio daughter–Dylan–a sophomore in college. Plus four dogs. Plus her garden feels like another child.
Julia’s mission is to remove this shame of divorce and redefine what it means to be a family by providing effective strategies for divorce, co-parenting, and LGBTQ-related challenges. 
This is a beautiful conversation around co-parenting and more... We hope you enjoy this episode! 
You can connect with Julia through her website or Instagram. 

Solo Cast - River

River takes on a solo cast today continuing the discussion we had earlier in the week about sitting with the discomfort and transitioning from married to single mother/woman. 
Transitioning from being married to becoming a single mother or woman can indeed be a challenging journey, filled with a mix of emotions and adjustments. It's completely normal to feel a range of emotions, including sadness, anger, fear, and even relief, as you navigate this significant life change. Here are some suggestions for navigating this transition:
Allow yourself to feel: It's important to acknowledge and honor your emotions, even the uncomfortable ones. Allow yourself to feel whatever comes up without judgment.
Seek support: Surround yourself with supportive friends, family members, or a therapist who can provide a listening ear and offer guidance during this transition. Connecting with others who have gone through similar experiences can also be incredibly validating.
Self-care: Take care of yourself physically, emotionally, and mentally. Make time for activities that bring you joy and relaxation, whether it's exercising, reading, or spending time in nature. Remember to prioritize your own well-being amidst the challenges of adjusting to your new reality.
Focus on the present: While it's natural to reflect on the past and worry about the future, try to focus on the present moment as much as possible. Take things one day at a time and remind yourself that you have the strength and resilience to get through this transition.
Reconnect with yourself: Use this time as an opportunity to rediscover who you are as an individual outside of your role as a wife or partner. Reflect on your values, interests, and goals, and consider what you want for your future moving forward.
Set boundaries: Establishing clear boundaries with your ex-partner and others in your life can help create a sense of stability and protect your emotional well-being. Communicate your needs and expectations openly and assertively.
Remember, it's okay to take things one step at a time and to ask for help when you need it. You're not alone, and with time, patience, and self-compassion, you will find your way through this transition and emerge stronger on the other side. Hope you enjoy this episode and share it with a friend. We are stronger together. 

Sitting in the Discomfort of Growth

River + Michele discusses a topic that we usually discuss with our close friends, as it can be very vulnerable. This is because growth requires a stretch, which can feel uncomfortable and scary. However, it is impossible to grow without discomfort, and only by sitting in discomfort can we break through to the next level of ourselves, our relationships, our lives, our businesses, and our financial well-being.
Discomfort and growth are intertwined. When we step out of our comfort zones, challenge our boundaries, and face new experiences, it often leads to feelings of discomfort. However, this same discomfort pushes us to adapt, learn, and evolve, leading to personal and professional growth.
We hope you get something good out of this topic. It's really important if you want to level up, grow, and live in your highest good. The messy, muck sucks, but what's on the other side is pretty amazing. It's what keeps us wanting to deep dive, and live a big, beautiful life!!
Thanks for listening!!
M + R

Lists: from Travel to Love

River + Michele discusses the idea of bucket lists and lists in general with Michelle Morganti returning to the podcast as a repeat guest. 
Most people think a bucket list, originates from "kick the bucket." The usual definition is that a bucket list lists the experiences or achievements a person hopes to have or accomplish during their lifetime.
Even if you don’t keep an actual list, chances are you have thought about what you would like to accomplish in your lifetime. A survey conducted by Stanford University School of Medicine found that over 90% of participants had a bucket list. The researchers sorted bucket list items into six categories. Those, along with examples, are included below:
Travel (78.5%) - visit a specific attraction, city, or country.
Accomplish a personal goal (78.3%) - learn something, run a marathon, write a book.
Achieve specific life milestones (51%) - get married, have a child, reach a wedding anniversary milestone, see their children have kids.
Spend quality time with friends and family (16.7%)
Achieve financial stability (16.1%) - pay off debts, retire comfortably, save enough for children’s college education.
Do a daring activity (15%) - go on a zipline, surf a 20-foot wave, skydive, bungee jump, or hang glide.
But a bucket list can also just be a list of goals you'd like to accomplish. 
 One thing is certain: none of us want to reach the end of our lives and wish we had lived differently. With that in mind, consider the top regrets of the dying, compiled by Bonnie Ware while she was caring for people living with serious illnesses.
 
1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
2. I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
5. I wish I had let myself be happier.
 
Taking action is the best way to minimize the bucket list effect and to live life with fewer regrets. Start your bucket list today: include some items you can accomplish within the year, and include some items that may take time to work toward. Don’t worry about what’s on other people’s lists; your list should be a reflection of you.
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Cord Cutting

River + Michele takes on a unique topic today, called Cord Cutting. Spiritual cord-cutting refers to the process of identifying and letting go of negative or draining energy connections in your life. These connections, or 'cords', are energetic links that tie you to other people, past experiences, or certain emotions.
It’s not always as easy as “let go and move on” after your relationship with a loved one, friend, or romantic partner has come to a close. It rarely is. Our minds and mouths may have said it’s over, but our hearts hold on.
Just as we were once physically attached to our mothers, we form temporary energetic cord attachments all the time. When we are in any kind of relationship with another person we are energetically connected and engaged. This connection continues even after your brain, heart, or circumstances cause the situation to end. Imagine your energy as cords attaching you to wherever your focus goes. Now imagine trying to move forward with dozens or hundreds of these old energy cables, like tangled extension cords, attaching you to everyone you’ve ever cared for. All of those old, dead, emotionally charged, and unnecessary cords would make it pretty hard to move forward, right?
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Meditation. YouTube video
 

Episode 37 - Christine Sloup Friend

River + Michele chat with Christine Sloup Friend, aka Chrissie to close friends and family.
Spiritual Journey: From Nebraska to Angelic Connection
Michele, River, and Christine discussed Christine's life journey and spiritual experiences. Christine shared her story of leaving her long-term marriage, an an abusive relationship and then moving to LA, where she started exploring her spirituality and found solace in meditation and connecting with angels. She described a transformative experience of being lifted out of her body and gaining a bird's eye view of her surroundings, which led her to understand that life is meant to be enjoyed and explored, not taken too seriously. Christine also mentioned that she had a daughter with her ex-husband, with whom she maintains a friendship. Michele noted Christine's natural inclination towards spirituality and described her as a source of truth. All true!
 
We hope you loved this episode. There is so much wisdom here. 
 
Thank you for sharing and following our journey. 
 
With gratitude,
Michele and River

Episode 36 - River a Year After Divorce

River + Michele chat through a year after River's divorce is final. River is a different person these days and it's a great reminder of how far she's come. Any of us who have gone through a hard breakup, divorce, etc... She's had to get grounded within herself. We discuss co-parenting and more... Hope you enjoy this episode as much as we did. Thanks again for listening. 
 
River and Michele